Hi, I‘m tim Ferule
“I invite you to experience the art of control, the pleasure of pain, and the exhilaration of submission.”
Tim Ferule
I have been practicing the art of spanking and BDSM for over thirty years and have recently moved to West Los Angeles to set up a professional practice.
My aim is to provide professional domination services for everyone but especially for females who desire more from their lives but do not have the same opportunities as men, and who are rightfully concerned about their safety.
I specialize in spanking, submission, and domestic discipline, especially with novices. My wealth of experience means you will receive just what you desire from your time with me.
Even if you are not yet sure what that is.
Why Choose to work with me?
Each client is unique and has their own curiosities, inhibitions, fantasies, shames, and needs. I do not judge why you choose to seek out a professional dominant or a BDSM experience. What I will do is listen to you, talk about your desires, your fears and your secrets, and I will craft experiences that help you get what you need or are looking for.
I can provide you with a purely physical experience if that is what you are looking for. However, I am also very good at helping clients achieve their goals or push the edges of their limits through submission and spanking therapy, discipline and control, pain and pleasure.
Most importantly though, I create a safe, discrete and independent space for you to explore the layers of your sexuality and the physical and emotional aspects that shape you, without fear of judgement or harm.
What Next?
Take a look around on this page, there is a lot of information to digest. Be sure to look through the FAQ which will answer a lot of your questions. If you're in a hurry, you can use the menus at the top, or start here.
Have you looked at escort or sex sites thinking or fantasizing that you can find someone to dominate you? Anyone can create an ad and call themselves a "Dominant," but few know that it's as much mental as physical and that it's about the client and not about them.
I love opening people up and exposing them to their deepest desires and urges. I am not merely playing at or pretending as a Dominant; I bring my authenticity and share my experience with every client in every session. My focus is 100% on you.
I know that for most people, seeing a professional is embarrassing or might jeopardize their family or work life. Most of my clients see me without telling their husband, partner, or anyone else which is understandable. I understand and respect your need for privacy.
I have an unassuming private condo in a quiet neighborhood in West L.A. which I am converting into my studio (I live elsewhere). There is nothing outwardly obvious about the building or the space that indicates what happens inside. If anyone happened to see you in the sixty seconds it takes to walk in or out, you would appear to be just another visitor or resident.
Services Offered
There are just about as many different kinks as there are people. All clients fill out a booking questionnaire that gives me insight into what you are looking for as well as what your limits are.
Be sure to review my Limits & Boundaries page. There are activities I specialize in and there are some things that I do not do at all. Please ensure that I can provide what you are seeking.
You might be experienced and know very specifically what you want from our time together, or this might be your first time and you have only a vague itch that you want to scratch. You can be as general or as specific as you want when you complete the booking questionnaire. Communication is key to ensuring you get what you need.
This list gives you some ideas, but feel free to reach out if there is something you want to explore that is not listed here.
No Sex
Engaging in sex or lewd acts for money is illegal under California's anti-prostitution laws.
None of the BDSM services I perform are intended to stimulate sexually.
Do not ask, and I will not ask you either.
Ideas
Pure Submission
When you surrender control over your body and choices, you're able to explore things that you might not be able to do on your own or with your regular partner because you no longer have a choice to say no. These sessions can be light or intense and are typically as much mental and emotional as physical.
Edging
Bringing you to the point of almost can be frustrating, intense, and enjoyable. Edging takes many forms, through spanking, flogging, or other methods. Google it.
Impact Play
This is probably my second-favorite activity. There are many variations and can involve self-control (you must hold position) or bondage to keep you from moving and then hand-spanking, paddling, flogging or whipping you in increasing intensity. There is a fascinating interplay between your limits (can you be marked or bruised or not? how much can you take?) and your desires (how much do you want to take? do you want to reach subspace?)
Discipline & Punishment
Discipline can be administered for actual things from your life or as part of a fantasy. Disciplinary punishments are typically painful from the start as opposed to impact play where you start slowly and build up the intensity and then bring you back down again. Punishments are meant to teach you a lesson and can involve pain, discomfort, corner time, extended bondage, outside tasks (for regular clients) and many other ways.
What They Say About Ferule
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Working with Ferule was one of the most exciting decisions of my life. I was so scared and nervous the first time. I literally thought I was going to throw up but he made me feel at ease right away. Low-key, doesn't talk a lot, but firm and no-nonsense and oh my god he spanks hard! Ouch!
"Betty"
Married Grocery Checker
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Ferule was dressed casually when we first met, kind of like an older dad, not at all like the stereotype of a "Master" decked out in leather and carrying a whip or whatever.
He was really refreshing and just what I needed after several tries at kink relationships that were not good for me.
Jenny*
Stay-at-Home Mom
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I feel grateful to have found such a wonderful dominant who got me straightened out, and I highly recommend him to anyone looking to make positive changes in their life.
Erin*
College Student
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We met a few times with Ferule because we always talked about incorporating some bondage and discipline into our relationship but didn't know how to start. He patiently taught us how to communicate with each other and how to play safe. Highly recommend him for couples who want to expand their private life!
Erin and Mike*
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