Services
Your deepest desires come to life
It is illegal in the State of California to pay or accept money in exchange for the sexual gratification of either party.
Do not ask me for sex, ever.
If you violate this rule, your session will be immediately terminated without refund.
Welcome
I have included on this page a number of different activities, or "kinks" that I offer. The list is not exclusive; it is meant to give you some ideas. If something here strikes a chord in you, or if there is something that is not listed that lives in your fantasies, then feel to reach out.
My goal is to give you what you want. Or what you need. When you book your first session with me, you will fill out a questionnaire about your interests and experience. That is your opportunity to tell me in more detail what you want (if you know yet) from our time together. The services on this page can help you put words to your urges, but don't feel like you have to pick just one or that you're limited to what is listed here. Every client is unique and complex and that is good.
Spanking Therapy
Spanking is my favorite activity and I am very good at it.
I call this Spanking Therapy because for many of my clients, a thorough spanking is a way to let go of their anxiety, their worries, and the stress of their daily lives. It's hard to think about anything else when you're being spanked or paddled like a bad little girl. Being spanked can make you feel helpless and vulnerable, but also safe and cared for. You might reach a state of euphoric physical and emotional release (a form of subspace) from an extended spanking session.
I incorporate spanking into most of the other activities listed below or you can come to me for just a simple spanking therapy session and you will not be disappointed. As an added benefit you get to enjoy each spanking for a day or two afterward, every time you sit down.
Submission
Submission is the foundation of everything else we do in sessions and in that regard you submit to me in every session no matter what else we are doing.
When you consensually surrender control over your body and choices, you are able to explore physical and emotional feelings and sensations that you might not be able to approach on your own or with your romantic partner(s).
Once you consent to submit, you do not have a choice to say no. Sessions can be light or intense and are often as much mental and emotional as they are physical.
As my submissive, you will obey me during your session. Your body and mind belong to me during our time together and you give up control over your choices. You exist to serve and obey me. The unspoken part of this is that I am giving you what you want. Submission gives you a way to achieve that without having to take overt responsibility for it.
Submission can be scary because you don't know what is going to happen. I encourage long-term clients because it allows us to build increasing trust which in turn lets you explore and push your boundaries in a secure, controlled manner. No matter what, I always play safely, with well-defined boundaries, consent, and safewords (a code you can use to tell me Hey I need to stop immediately! with no questions asked.)
Pain & Impact
Administering pain and impact play are often what people imagine when they think about BDSM. They are the S (sadism) and M (masochism) in BDSM and they encompass all types of activities. My skills include spanking, paddling, whipping, cropping, flogging, nipple and body clamps, prolonged bondage, and similar activities. There are many other options and we can always discuss whatever you have in mind. I am something of a traditionalist and while I focus primarily on the types mentioned here, I have a wealth of real-world experience. If you ask for something that I am not skilled at or comfortable with, I will let you know so that you can explore that activity with someone else.
Humiliation, Embarrassment, Degradation
These are different sides of the same coin, varying primarily in degree and intent. You might have intense shame around something like your identity, your body, or illicit fantasies or urges. Or perhaps you are young, inexperienced or easily embarrassed because of your upbringing. We can safely explore these areas during a session, pushing you a little further each time as you grow.
Couples+
I love working with couples or polyamorous relationship groups, as it opens up so many more possibilities. Perhaps you want a D/S relationship and the sub needs to be trained but you are not sure how to do it. Maybe you are both submissive so you need someone to dominant you both. The possibilities are endless.
I have trained many couples over the years who were interested in some form of BDSM or another but did not know how to start or how to play safely. And oftentimes, it's a difficult subject to initiate, so having a professional dominant facilitate your communication and play can jumpstart your BDSM journey together.
Thruples and other ethical non-monogamous, polyamorous or similar dynamics are welcome.
Dominant / Submissive Training
This is ongoing training for people who are interested in learning about being a dominant or submissive outside of sessions. Your training consists of the physical acts as well as the emotional or psychological aspects. I emphasize safety and open, honest communication.
You can do this solo or as part of a couple+. I will create a personalized plan for you with tasks and homework as well as periodic in-person or virtual sessions.
Training sessions are hands-on, but are more focused on teaching and we'll spend a good part of the time talking about where you're at in your progress and in your practical experience outside of sessions. Contact me for information and rates.
Human Pet
When you choose this service, I turn you into my pet dog (or other animal). Of course, every pet needs to be well-trained so you'll spend time learning to sit, roll over, sit up, beg, and to perform any other tricks I come up with. Rest periods are spent in your kennel.
If you don't behave, you might be smacked on your bottom or snout. For really bad behavior, we might need to resort to a shock collar to get your attention.
On the other hand, if you're a good dog, you might get to play fetch, be pet and cuddled, or have a treat from my hand or in your dog bowl.
Every pet wears a collar to show they are owned. For regular repeat clients, you will even get your own custom dog tags to wear.
Age Play
Some people like to be regressed to a younger age, to a time when they had fewer responsibilities and their parents made all their decisions for them. As a real-world father, I have the experience to be your Daddy.
Depending on your needs, I can regress you to a toddler or infant who needs to wear diapers and have them changed after you pee in them. We can do any other childhood age beyond the diaper stage as well. I do not do scat play so if that is your thing, we are not a good fit.
As with Forced Gender Roles, I do not have the furniture and toys that I had previously. For example, I do not have a diaper-changing table, but I am happy to improvise for you. See my gift page if you are interested in gifting items to the studio to make your age play dreams come true.
To be explicitly clear, this is adult role-playing only. You must be 18+ to use any of my services.
Discipline
In a disciplinary session, you are punished for being bad, for misbehaving, for not completing assigned tasks, for not reaching your goals, or just because I want to. Discipline can be somewhat more real than other activities because the punishment must be painful in some way to be effective. So for example, while a discipline spanking hurts from the very first smack, with other activities like impact play we would start gently and build up to harder smacks as your body adjusts and responds with endorphins during the session.
Punishments and disciplinary methods are as varied as the sub. Some of my favorites are an over-the-knee (OTK) spanking, a flogging, nipple clamps, corner time, chores and humiliating or embarrassing tasks. I try to match the discipline to the client, so the better I know you, the more effective it becomes. You also have the option of extending the discipline outside of our session time together.
Discipline can be a part of your fantasies, or an important element of your real-world life. For regular clients who want to address life issues, we will talk about your needs, desires, shortcomings or perceived failures. You might feel a need to be controlled or you might have specific goals such as weight loss, better house cleaning, less frequent (or more frequent!) masturbation, completing homework, getting better grades, and so on.
I can help you to be successful if you are sincere about tackling the effort. I use discipline (and rewards) to help you get what you need or achieve your goals.
Bondage
There is something both liberating and exciting about being tied up. You set the limits and the rest is up to me. You are unable to escape, you are exposed physically and emotionally, and you are vulnerable. I can do whatever I want to you while you cannot move or get away. Will it be painful or pleasurable? Both? Tickled or smacked around? Embarrassed or humiliated?
Will you ever get free?
Bondage sessions can be standalone–tying you up is the objective of the session–or incorporated into other activities such as submission, discipline, impact play, embarrassment or degradation, and so on.
Slavery & Collaring
Take your submission to the next level. Being a slave means surrendering to me completely, usually beyond the boundaries of a given session. Your body and mind cease to be your own as you give yourself in service to me.
If I accept you as a slave, you will receive a collar which shows that you are now owned, and I will provide customized rules for how you are to live your life. This is a big commitment and not one to be taken lightly.
Slavery is limited to a small group of special clients and is by invitation only. I need to know you inside and out before you will be considered and that takes time with one another so you must have booked sessions with me over a period of six months or more.
I will let you know when you are eligible if I think you might make a suitable slave. You then must complete a series of tasks and assignments to determine if you are acceptable.
Public Sessions
For select, regular clients we can do sessions in public in ways that are not clearly intrusive or illegal. I do not involve third-parties who have not given explicit consent but there are ways to be subtle about it so that you are embarrassed but no one else knows what is going on.
For example, a female client might be outfitted with a waist belt with your hands cuffed to D-rings on the belt through holes cut in the pockets of a sundress. I take you on a walk through a mall or force you to interact with store clerks while you are surreptitiously bound.
Or perhaps I make you dress inappropriately or revealingly, or wear a collar and then perform some public task while I observe and send you text commands from a short distance away.
See the Limits & Boundaries page for information about how I ensure that we play safely, ethically, and legally. This service is only available with trusted, repeat clients after we have developed a relationship and history of mutual trust.
Daddy / Brat
Are you a brat who needs your Daddy to correct and punish you for mouthing off? Do you need your dirty mouth washed out with a bar of soap? Then this might be the kink for you.
Tell me how you've been naughty since I last saw you and I'll take care of your attitude for you, usually with an over-the-knee paddling and some well-deserved corner time.
Only brats are allowed to call me Daddy.
Water Sports
More often known as golden showers, water sports are somewhat of a taboo activity even in the world of BDSM. Golden showers involve peeing on you, making you pee on yourself or in your pants, or making you drink your own or someone else's piss. With respect to BDSM, they are an intense way of showing dominance over a submissive and because of that they can add a whole new level to a scene.
You might find water sports intriguing because of the shame of being turned on by pee or of being used as a human toilet by a dominant. The thought of being degraded and humiliated can be intensely exciting. Some people crave the vulnerability and helplessness that comes with surrendering themselves to bodily functions.
Likewise water sports might be incorporated into Age Play. Or perhaps for you, it's a primal and instinctual desire to be marked and claimed by your dominant, much like male dogs piss on a tree to mark their territory.
Whatever your reason, I am happy to explore water sports with you if you desire that. Let me know, and we will go over the rules, proper sanitation, safety, and so on.
Forced Gender Roles
This is typically referred to as Forced Feminization or Sissy / Slut Training. I tend to have more female clients than male and I want to offer it to everyone. It can be just as fun to force a female to behave or act like a male as vice versa and of course my trans clients have their own desires and needs.
I am not able to offer this right away since I was unable to bring my collection of clothing and accessories when I relocated to Los Angeles. If you want to provide your own or gift some to the studio, then please get in touch and we can work it out.