Who I Work With

See If You Are Acceptable

It is illegal in the State of California to pay or accept money in exchange for the sexual gratification of either party.

Do not ask me for sex, ever.

If you violate this rule, your session will be immediately terminated without refund.

Before Continuing

The short version is that I work with almost anyone who will benefit or enjoy our time together. I am a former teacher and guidance counselor and it's my life's work to help people get what they need.

Nevertheless, I do have some rules to ensure we are a good fit. Go read my About Me page first and decide if I am what you are looking for. If so, then take a further look below to see if you qualify to submit to me.

You (Mandatory)

I am very particular about the clients I accept. If you do not meet all of the criteria in this section, please move on. You may not submit to me.

Adults Only – Do not contact me if you have not already turned 18 years of age.
Obedient – You will do as you are told without physical resistance. I am a mature dominant (read my About Me page). I am not going to overpower you, nor do I have any interest in doing so. There are plenty of "muscle doms" out there if that is your thing. I am firm and you will move how I direct you. (Brats and embarrassed reluctance are fine though.) See the Session Rules page for specifics.
Respectful and Considerate – If you are rude, demanding or disrespectful, you may not submit to me. Be respectful and patient in all of your communications with me, online and in person. I will get back to you when I get back to you.
Financially Responsible – Pay for your service without complaint. Do not talk about the price or anything else about payment in-session as it detracts from the experience. All your questions can be answered on the Payments and Rates pages or you can use the contact form before you book.
Clean – Do not arrive for a session still sweaty from your gym workout or smelly because you did not shower that morning. Be clean like an ordinary adult, especially in your private areas and be shaved in your usual places.
Fragrances – Do not wear perfume, cologne, or any other products like hair gels, deodorant or shampoos that have a strong fragrance which might linger after you leave. My next clients do not want to smell (or think about) you and I don't want to smell you unless I'm breathing down your neck.
On Time – Be punctual. Arrive just before your session time and leave promptly when your session is over. This rule is so you do not waste my time and also serves to protect your privacy and that of other clients who might be scheduled before or after you.
Vetted – For my safety and yours, you must provide a valid, current Drivers License or state-issued I.D., along with other relevant information. Your personal information is strictly confidential and I will never divulge it to anyone without your permission. Mutual trust in this business is essential.

"I can help you unlock your full potential and achieve their goals. Or I can put you on your hands and knees and spank your ass."

You (Other Stuff)

This should give you an idea of the type of submissives I accept.

Gender – Most of my submissive clients are female because they relate to my age, experience and firm but trusting nature. However, I accept submissive clients with any gender identity. I do not care if you are female, male, trans, non-binary, or "other." If you are not cisgendered and not out about your true gender, that is fine. I ask only that you tell me about yourself as much as you are comfortable with so I can respect your identity and mental health. For trans clients, it is important to let me know about any gender dysphoria issues, especially as they relate to your hard limits.
Experience – I welcome all experience levels, from BDSM virgins to experts. As part of my preparation, I tailor every session to your level, needs and desires. I particularly enjoy and specialize in clients who have no experience whatsoever no matter what your age. It is rewarding for me to show someone something new and exciting.
Sexual Orientation – You can be straight, gay, bisexual, monosexual, asexual, demisexual... I do not care. I can make a connection with anyone as long as you are open to being open with me. I was going to make an inclusive list here, but times have changed and there are too many to spell out now which is actually really great. You do you. Don't worry too much about this one.
Relationship Status – You can be single, married, dating, polyamorous, monogamous, or anything in between. A good number of my clients are not single. Sometimes they tell their partner but more often they do not. While this is an intimate service, it is your body and your choice what you do with it. It is important and healthy to take care of yourself and your needs. Many of my clients are in relationships where their partner cannot give them everything they need and so I satisfy that. It usually makes them happier overall in both life and in their relationship. In any event, you can count on my discretion; what happens during a session is for you, and you alone to share if you choose to do so.
Physically Capable – Some (though not all) BDSM activities can be strenuous and stressful to you physically. They often involve physical discomfort, pain, and exertion. You must be physically capable of the activities you choose. At a minimum, you must have a healthy heart and no major illnesses or diseases that can cause problems for you during or after a session. Tell me in advance of anything I should know about to ensure you stay safe.
Fitness and Body Type – Along with being physically healthy, I do not take on submissive who are very overweight or out-of-shape. I don't mean that you have to be a 20-year-old athlete. Most of my clients are not that. As a general guideline, if your BMI is greater than 32 or so, you might not be a good fit for what I do simply for health reasons. This is not a hard limit, so please reach out if you have questions or concerns.
Age – I do not care how old you are, as long as you are over 18 and are physically and emotionally able to participate in the activities you select.
Looks – Likewise, your looks are irrelevant to me, even though they probably are not to you. Don't worry about that.