Client Application
Your Submission Begins Now
Pay your $50 Application Fee here. Applications are not looked at until the App Fee is paid.
All prospective submissives must complete this application in its entirety to be considered as my client. The application is intimate and intrusive, just like your sessions with me will be. This serves three purposes.
First, I need to verify your identity, age and employment for legal reasons and for my safety and yours. This is non-negotiable. If you are not willing to identify yourself, then you may move on.
Second, this application is the first step in building a professional relationship based on mutual respect, trust, and honesty. You need to be able to trust that I will keep your responses confidential in the same way that you trust your doctor or therapist to not talk about you to anyone else.
Third, engaging in BDSM activities involves physical and emotional risks. I use your responses to learn as much about what makes you tick as I can in the quickest way possible. We might have only an hour together the first time we meet, so the more I know about you ahead of time, the quicker we can get to the fun stuff.
There are questions of an intimate sexual nature in the application, even though my services do not directly include sex. Most people's interest in BDSM stems from their sexuality and their sexual experiences. Think of it like this: a psychologist or therapist might ask you about your sexual feelings and history while helping you through trauma or issues, but they're not going to have sex with you just because they talked about sex with you.
Do you have to Share Everything?
No, you do not. Answer each question to the extent you are able and are comfortable sharing. There are really only two things I need from you: your identification information, and what you are looking for from me.
The rest of the questions are there to help me help you. I encourage you to be as open and forthcoming as you can be though as it will make your time with me much more fulfilling and enjoyable. Many people find it easier to open up to a stranger than to their partner, friends or family. I am happy to be that person for you.
How to Complete
These are my recommendations for filling out the Client Application. You are not (yet) my submissive so you can do these or not. But in my experience, you will end up with a much better application, and a higher chance of being accepted if you do the following:
- 1Complete the entire application one sitting. It can take an hour or more so make sure you have enough time.
- 2Do it alone with no one else around or in the house or apartment. Wait until the kids are at school and the husband is at work or whatever.
- 3Turn off all distractions. Turn off your social media (Do Not Disturb mode on an iPhone), turn off the TV, etc.
- 4Take off your clothes and fill out the application naked. Nudity can make you feel a little bit exposed and vulnerable, and a little bit aroused all of which can make you more honest motivated to finish.
- 5You may touch yourself while you fill it out, but don't get distracted and don't finish yourself off, especially males. If you orgasm before you are done, you might come down off your high and you might not finish the application and follow through.
New Client Application
It is illegal in the State of California to accept money to do anything in exchange for the sexual gratification of either party.
Do not ask me for anything sexual, ever.
If you violate this rule, your session will be immediately terminated without refund.